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Sleepy Sheep and Daniel

Sleepy Sheepy and Daniel

Shine.fm had an opportunity to speak with children’s author and Olivet Nazarene University Graduate Dan Holom and Disney lead animator and illustrator Mark Henn about their new book “Sleepy Sheepy and Daniel.”  The entire interview is below.

Listen to the entire interview with Dan Holom and Mark Henn below

If you would like more information about Sleepy Sheepy and Daniel, or would like to purchase a copy click HERE! on the Amazon link below.  Plus, if you would review Sleepy Sheepy and Daniel and let Amazon know that this kind of book is great for families that would be great too!

 

 

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The Poop on Potty Training

Dear Dr. Bill,

 

I need some information on how to get our son potty-trained.  We’ve been trying since he turned two-years-old.  He seems afraid of sitting the regular toilet even though we try using a training seat for him.  He is just a bit over 2|1/2.  What should we do?

 

–George

 

Dear George,

 

Potty training is a messy subject, but it’s something a lot of parents get stressed out about.  One of reasons for the stress is pressure from family and friends.

 

You should know that the AVERAGE age for mastering toilet training is three.  That’s just an average, which means a lot of kids are trained closer to two, while others don’t reach this milestone until age four.

 

The toddler who succeeds in potty training is the one who WANTS to be trained.  Kids forced into potty training before they’re ready may develop a negative attitude that will only delay success.  Here are a few signs that can help you figure out if your son is ready:

 

Does he know when he is about to go?  This awareness will help him get started.

 

Are his bowel movements predictable?  Don’t laugh…regularity can help you figure out the times of day when potty training attempts are most likely to succeed.

 

Does he want to wear “big boy” underwear?  This is a sign of wanting to be independent.  Underwear can also serve as a reward for your son’s interest in toilet training.

 

Can he pull his pants down and pull them back up by himself?  This is important skill…it allows for easy access when he feels the urge to go.

 

You can find more potty training advice at focusonthefamily.com.

 

Thanks for writing, George.

I’m Bill Maier for Shine.FM.

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Can Your Child’s Drawings Predict Their IQ Later in Life?

Can your child’s drawings predict his intelligence level later in life?  Researchers in England say “possibly.”

 

United Press International reports on a new study done at King’s College in London.  Researchers there followed 8,000 pairs of identical and non-identical twins over a period of 10 years.

 

When the kids in the study were 4-years-old, they were asked to draw a picture of a child.  Those same kids were given an IQ test 10 years later.

 

The study found that kids who drew more accurate and detailed pictures at 4 had higher scores on the IQ test at 14.

 

The quality of the 4-year-olds’ drawings was based on details, not how artistic they were.  The researchers looked to see if the kids had included features like a head, eyes, nose, mouth, ears, hair, body, arms and so on.

Dr. Rosalind Arden, the lead author of the study says: “The correlation is moderate, so our findings are interesting, but it does not mean that parents should worry if their child draws badly.”

Dr. Arden points out that drawing ability does not determine intelligence, and that there are numerous other factors, both genetic and environmental, which affect intelligence later in life.

By the way, the researchers also found the quality of drawings and intelligence were more closely linked in the identical twins than the fraternal twins, which seems to suggest a genetic component.

I have to admit, I was VERY relieved to hear that the quality of your drawing doesn’t indicate your level of intelligence.  Because when I draw pictures for my kids, they just look at me and say “what is that, Dad?”

 

I’m Bill Maier for Shine.FM.

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Good News: 14 Year Old Genius Attempting to Stop Cyberbullying

Trisha Prabhu, an 8th grader at Scullen Middle School in Naperville, Illinois is determined to find an effective way to help prevent cyberbullying. Prabhu was a finalist in this year’s Google Science Fair with her project, “Rethink,” in which she looked into behavioral mechanisms behind online nastiness. Her idea was to create automated reminder causing users to pause before posting a hurtful comment. She hypothesized that if kids had to read the comments again before pressing send, they might retract their insult. And guess what? She was right. A whopping 93.43 percent of the group presented with a message about their mean comment changed their minds about sending hurtful words after receiving the alert. Click here to see what’s next for this young inventor and her great project!

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Back to School Anxiety

Are your kids looking forward to the first day of school, or could they be feeling a bit anxious?

Along with going to bed earlier and doing homework, some children stress about a new school year because it means adjusting to change. Some kids love change, but for others it can create fear and worry.

“Will I like my new teacher?” “What if the work is too hard for me?” “What if I don’t make any friends?” Clinical psychologist and mom Juli Slattery says questions like these can keep can keep a 6-year-old — or a 16-year-old — up at night in the weeks leading up to the start of school.

Dr. Slattery says we can help our kids with “new school year anxiety” by validating their feelings. Encourage them to express their feelings about the school year starting.

You might ask them what they’re most excited and most nervous about. Then, explain that its normal to feel jitters before school starts.

Juli says we can also help to reduce the number of “unknown” factors leading up to the school year. Find out what you can about a new teacher, a new school and what friends will be attending school with your child.

If your school offers an open house to meet teachers and organize lockers, take advantage of it. If you have children just starting junior high or high school, walk through their schedule for the day.

Finally, when school starts, provide your child with displays of your confidence and affection. You might give a kindergartner a teddy bear to carry in his backpack as a reminder that “Mom and Dad are praying for you.” For older kids, leave notes of encouragement hidden in their notebooks or lunch sacks.

You can find more back to school tips by going to FocusontheFamily.com and entering “back to school” in the search engine.

I’m Bill Maier for Shine.FM.

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Could Your Child Be Overweight & Not Even Know It?

Could your child be overweight—and not even know it?  According to a new report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, most children and teens who are overweight think that they are actually the right weight.

Live Science is reporting on the study, in which researchers asked kids ages 8 to 15 whether they considered themselves to be “fat or overweight, too thin, or about the right weight.”

Overall, about 30 percent of the children had misperceptions about their weight.  Some kids who normal weight thought they were overweight or too thin.  Other kids who were overweight or obese thought they were underweight or about the right weight.

The overweight kids had the most had misperceptions about their weight.  81 percent of overweight boys and 71 percent of overweight girls thought they were about the right weight. In addition, about half of obese boys and a third of obese girls thought they were the right weight.

According to the report, more children from low-income families had misperceptions about their weight, compared with the children of high- and middle-income families.

Previous studies have shown that parents also misperceive their children’s weight. Dr. Ihuoma U. Eneli, at Nationwide Children’s Hospital says one reason for the misperception may be inadequate knowledge about what a healthy weight looks like.

Dr. Eneli points out that as the prevalence of obesity has increased over time, our perception of what is a normal weight has also changed.  She says “If people look heavier, then heavier starts looking like the norm.”

For some advice on helping your child stay healthy and fit, go to healthychildren.org.

I’m Bill Maier for Shine.FM.

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Kids and Listening

Dear Dr. Bill,

My son is having trouble listening to instructions and following directions. He gets very focused on the TV, a book or videogame. It seems like I have to repeat myself over and over again. How can I teach him to listen to me?

–Shawna

Dear Shawna,

 

The best way to get your son to listen is to change the way you communicate with him.

 

First of all, you need to make sure you have his full attention when you’re speaking to him. Never, ever ask your child to do something or give them instructions when they are watching TV, playing a video game, or engaged in some other kind of activity. Turn off the TV, tell your child to look into your eyes, and then give them a clear, unambiguous command.

 

Secondly, make sure your command is backed up by a time deadline and a consequence. For example, instead of simply saying: “Johnny, I want you to turn off that TV and clean up your room,” do this:

 

Turn off the TV, get your son’s full attention, and then say: “Johnny, it’s 5 o’clock—I want you to put away all of your toys by 5:30. I’m going to set the kitchen timer for 30 minutes and when it rings I’ll be inspecting your work. If you do a good job, I’ll allow you to have 30 minutes of video game time after dinner tonight. If you haven’t completed your work by 5:30, you won’t be able to play video games at all this evening.”

 

Then make sure you follow through. If you don’t, you’ve just taught your son that you don’t mean what you say.

 

Dr. Russell Barkley, one of the nation’s leading experts in parent training, coined a phrase that every parent should remember: “Act, don’t yak.”

 

Thanks for writing, Shawna.

I’m Bill Maier for Shine.FM.

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Passing Your Faith On To Your Kids: Part 3

Would you like to be more intentional about passing your faith on to your kids?  This week I’m tackling that topic at the request of several of our listeners.

 

So here’s a question for you—are you teaching your children to share their faith?  Do you want your kids to live boldly for Christ in world that is increasingly hostile to Christianity?

 

If so, they will need to learn some basic principles of apologetics and an accurate Christian world view.  Here’s some good news: author and apologist Lee Strobel has written a series of books that will help you with this daunting task.

 

Check out these titles: The Case for Faith for Kids, The Case for a Creator for Kids, The Case for Christ for Kids and Off My Case for Kids: 12 Stories to Help You Defend Your Faith.  Read these books with your children, and you’ll find that YOU will be more confident in sharing your faith as well!

 

In addition to the ideas I’ve shared over the past two days, here’s a challenge for you.  Become a counter-cultural family.  What do I mean by that?

 

I firmly believe that the Body of Christ needs to become “counter-cultural” in the 21st century.  Our culture tells us the most important things in life are wealth, power, success, popularity and physical attractiveness.  Our kids hear this constant drumbeat from their peers, from the media–perhaps even from us without us even realizing it.

 

But Jesus calls us to a higher standard—one characterized by compassion, generosity, service and self-sacrifice.   Are we teaching those values to our children?

 

Encourage your kids to reach outside their circle of friends and “love the unlovely”—the kids at their school or in the neighborhood who may be unpopular, unattractive, lonely or disabled.  Isn’t that what Jesus would do?

 

I’m Bill Maier for Shine.FM.

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